This book is an adaptation of a TEDx talk Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie gave in 2012.
What is it about?
In the book, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie shares her vision of feminism and why it benefits both men and women, using anecdotes from her own life and from people around her. These range from who pays for a date, differences in workplace norms for men and women, marriage, career, etc. She also explains why the current situation is harmful to both men and women.
What appeals to me?
It’s a book that can resonate with people from all corners of the world and from all kinds of cultures and subcultures — regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman. That’s the beautiful part, and perhaps also the sad part. I grew up in the Netherlands and recognize so much of what she describes, even though she talks about her experiences in Nigeria and those of her friends in America.
It also remains relevant, even though the TEDx talk was given in 2012, now already 14 years ago.
Conclusion
I can wholeheartedly recommend this book. It’s relatable and still relevant. I “read” the audio version, which was only about 40 minutes long. So if you’re still unsure — time won’t be an issue.
Score: 9/10.
Mini FAQ
Who is Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie?
Chimamanda is a writer from Nigeria. She studied in both Nigeria and the United States. Her latest (9th) book was published in 2025.
Who is this book for?
For anyone who wants to learn more about feminism and the challenges we face as a society (men and women). Anyone, regardless of gender or (sub-)culture, can find something in it that feels familiar.
In which languages is this book available?
Chimamanda’s work has been translated into more than 30 languages. I couldn’t find a complete list for this specific book, but here are some languages it has been published in: Dutch, English, Italian, Portuguese, Chinese, and Burmese.
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